In the mundane of day to day life we often function on auto pilot. With everything it takes to just get through the day our partner is usually put on the back burner, leaving them to feel forgotten, un-important, not thought of, all of which can drive a wedge in the relationship. I invite you to pick one thing that you know will put a smile on your partners face. Maybe, make them a cup of coffee while they’re getting ready in the morning (my husband makes me coffee every morning), leave a little love note somewhere it will surprise them, check in during the day, ask about their day and really listen or try initiating sex. You’ll be surprised just how far a little gesture goes and helps you connect more deeply.